Dating is dead blog
Like flipping a switch, he can change drastically from one extreme to the next. He or she acts one way when they are around you, but completely different around your parents, and completely different around their friends. Slowly, you lose your friends until you feel like your partner is the only person you have left. Your partner cycles from mean and vicious to sweet and loving, then back again. He might set traps for squirrels or rabbits and then torture them.Or, if they do something nice for you, they feel entitled to a reward, and if you don’t do what they want, they are entitled to punish you. Your partner embarrasses you in front of other people or talks badly behind your back. They might talk to other people about how bad they have it and how hard it is to date someone like you.They might call you fat in front of your friends, or make fun of your clothes. You don’t understand what went wrong, or why your partner acts the way they do or what you can do to make things better.They might tell you you are not allowed to hang out with a certain person anymore, or wear a certain shirt, or go to a certain restaurant. Because they have a depressing family life, come from a broken home, had parents that didn’t love them right, are in debt, can’t hold a job, have a disease, a psychotic ex, a broken heart, low self-esteem….whatever their story is, they will make you feel sympathy for it. As real as they might be, and as sad as they might be, they are a trap that keeps you stuck. Oh yeah and the police department would not file charges on him because “no one saw him do it” and the DAs office told me my case was not strong enough for them to provide me a protective order This is honestly one of the reasons i said fuck it and went back because he seemed sorry and no on else was trying to help me That is why I am going to open a last resort nonprofit org for women who are victims but don’t have enough evidence of abuse to get the laws attention or care We have to do sumthin for the women that don’t have anyone or anything to live for other than these men because when we don’t , we send them straight back into the hands of their oppressors I am a living testimony of that Cheree, there are places for you..
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